Posted by: A Mom w/Fears | June 20, 2010

Random Thoughts

Some friends of ours just split up. I don’t have any details and it sucks. But right now my heart is broken, my stomach is churning, I am just so confused. I thought that they were one of the happiest couples we knew. I did however know that something was up, just couldn’t put my finger on it.

We’ve always told BabyAm that you never know what’s going on inside someone else’s house.

The jerk neighbors have had “Just Married” written all over their car (that hasn’t moved since that day) for over 2 months now. Why?

Same neighbors tore out all their cat-pee bushes and threw them in their front yard (over two weeks ago) and they are still there. Their grass is dying. Now the other neighbor has quit mowing their lawn for them, so it looks quite trashy. They are not renters. Who does this?

Now the two houses we look at every day out our window look like dumps. Nice.

One more week (7 days really), and it will be ONE year since I smoked a cigarette!!!! Well, both Hubby and I…can’t leave him out. We are doing so well.

I haven’t wanted to ask, but i hope one of my sweet friends who has been trying to lick the smoking habit too, is doing good with it. If she’s reading this, maybe she’ll let me know. I’ve not stopped rooting for her. You go girl!

Cancer still sucks. Chemo sucks. All the side effects of Chemo suck too. I think it sucks that I can’t help KK. It’s starting to really piss me off.

Our vacation (that I didn’t mention yet) was wonderful…we ate our way through Portland and Seattle…but my back ached the entire time, and my ankle…still not healed.

My “To Do” list is too long for me to even start writing it out.

I haven’t felt like blogging lately. I must be going through a “season”…I don’t know if I like it. I miss getting things off my chest.

Really…they split up? I still am in shock. Hurting for them both. So unexpected.

*sigh* Thanks for the dump.


  1. Yeah, um, no. Long story.

    I’m sorry about your friends. You’re right though, no one knows what goes on inside a marriage except the two that are in it.

    Hugs honey, I miss you bunches!

  2. hugs!!! i’m so sorry for your friends. Sometimes though people are better friends when they aren’t together.

    I suspect my sister will be divorced eventually. The extra woman and baby might be a big part of it, if she can get her head past the idea that she was in this for “forever”, and trying to fix him?
    Prayers for smoother (I know there really isn’t such a thing) chemo.

  3. I have had two friends split and both shocked and surprised me. I think I felt for them but also I realized who if it can happen to them then I am vulnerable and that was unsettling as well. If it could happen to them – it could happen to me. It was very unsettling. Hang in there sending prayers and hugs. Tea and a chat are a must real soon!

  4. Just poppin’ in. It’s been a while since I read through my blog list. (((hugs)))

    You just never know what other people are going through. It’s a shame. I hope both parties move on & find happiness.


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